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No doubt that sex is one of the most pleasurable thing we all humans love to get it in, but it happens to be one of the least discussed because of our social values. Taking about sex is still considered taboo in many cultures, even though awareness about sexually transmitted diseases and acceptable sexual behaviour is paramount to living a healthy adult life.
The lesser you know about sex, the more you are at risk. Here are 10 embarrassing questions about sex that are not very commonly asked, but certainly should be. Read on!
Is bigger really better?
Some women have definite size preferences, but a huge package doesn't automatically translate into great sex. In fact, women complain more often that their partner is too big, not too small, studies have suggested. True sexual enthusiasm far outweighs any gifted parts. And contrary to another popular belief, the size of your hands or feet has nothing to do with the size of any other part of the body.
Are men more sexually active than women?
It is a fact that sex is on a man's mind all the time and a man's sex drive is an innate, natural force. Physiologically also a man's sex drive is stronger than a woman's. Women place more value on emotional connection as a spark for sexual desire. But women also appear to be heavily influenced by social and cultural factors.
Is oral sex really safe?
Oral sex does not count as safe sex. The only risk that is not present in this case is the risk of pregnancy. Unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for numerous sexually transmitted. Syphilis, herpes even HIV can be transmitted through the sores or small cuts in your mouth and throat. Although, in a single partner relationship oral sex does add spice to the act!
Is fantasizing about someone else bad?
The largest sexual organ in the body is the brain as a large part of the sexual experience starts here. Fantasizing only adds to the fun of the sexual act. If you are committed to your partner, then it is ok to think about Kim Kardashian, or Gerard Butler sometimes. It is not bad until the difference between fantasy and reality is clear!
Is watching pornography something to be worried about?
It's perfectly normal for adults to look at pornography. Your partner's propensity for porn is probably not a big deal. There are exceptions, of course. Illegal, or excessively graphic or violent pornography are clearly major issues. You should be concerned about addiction only if your partner spends so much time looking at pornography that it disrupts normal life, such as work and personal relationships.
Does having sex help in losing weight?
The average human loses 26 calories when kissing for a minute. Furthermore, vigorous sex for half an hour burns 150 calories. Kissing is also very good for your teeth: The extra saliva released during the act helps keep the mouth clean, reducing the risk of decay. One hour of sex could potentially compare with aerobic training due to elevated breathing and heart rate. You can burn almost 85 calories in thirty minutes of having sex!
Is premature ejaculation a common problem?
Premature ejaculation affects 30% of men at some time in their lives. Often, early ejaculation in men is a co-symptom of erectile dysfunction or fatigue, poor cardiovascular conditioning, depression, anxiety, or neurological symptoms. Some men do find that premature ejaculation begins at the onset of sexual maturity, but plenty of men also find it to be an issue later in life.
Can too much masturbation screws your sex life?
As long as masturbation doesn't comprise the whole of your sex life, and does not take precedence over intimate relationships with a partner, it's not generally believed to be harmful. Also important to consider: How much of your time do masturbation activities occupy and does it keep you from other things in your life, including having sex with a partner, perhaps? Moderation is the key.
Are you ever too old to have sex?
Some people believe that a decrease in libido is a natural part of aging, but the loss of sexual desire can be associated with a number of other factors like hormone deficiencies, depression, side effects of medication, changes in a relationship, even communication barriers. Sex is an important aspect of physical and emotional health and well-being for adults of all ages.
Can medicines cure erectile dysfunction?
Oral medications are only a temporary fix to a problem that may have other underlying health causes that should be addressed by a qualified physician. It could be related to health concerns like hypertension and diabetes. Before making a choice about partaking in these meds, the potential side effects should be given a serious consideration.
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